That's fair I suppose. It does sometimes take a fresh perspective to take a third option between two extremely in-your-face options. I still don't see why these "faster" ships couldn't have simply hyper jumped away upon exiting the Raddus earlier when there were other Resistance ships around (or why they couldn't have been used earlier to leave), but maybe there's some unstated movie reason hyperjumps don't work at the moment? I think I remember there being a type of Imperial Star Destroyer in the Expanded Universe that was designed to prevent hyperjumps somehow with gravity. Perhaps the movie is borrowing that idea with Snoke's massive ship. Even just a throwaway line of "it's too big to run away from" could work for general audiences if so.

So comic-wise, is this actually Jim's heroic sacrifice idea? Or is he being upstaged by Sally here. I'd first thought that this might have been something Sally had alluded to at the last session's end, but no, it was explicitly thoughts about Snoke. Maybe it's a combination of both ideas; Jim not actually wanting to self-sacrifice Poe just yet, and Sally wanting something to happen to Snoke when the collision happens. That just leaves Holdo to be chosen to pilot the Raddus as no one else wants a character they're playing to bite the dust and NPCs likely won't go through with it.